Tuesday, 17 June 2025

Time - The ultimate equaliser

One element, one unit that envelopes all humans across the world is "TIME". We talk, act, behave and live under the grand influence of time, don't we? In a very philosophical way, we may say time is the only resource we all have and we all spend. So it makes a lot of sense that we spend it wisely as time is limited, isn’t it?

            Let us delve into the question ‘What is time?’ It is probably what we keep a watch on in our clocks and gadgets, isn’t it? Wake up at 6:00 am, get ready by 7:00, breakfast by 8:00, reach office by 9:00 and the day goes on according to the timetable. Days begin and end, dates change, months and years follow and time continues to fly. Few days back we were celebrating new years and here we are almost half a year ahead. No wonder they say ‘Time Flies’. So is time limited to that time piece called clock? There must be more so let’s explore.

            What if one completely removes the clock from the equation. Then we will be left with day and night or more precisely, morning, afternoon, evening and night. This means we try to divide time of the day according to the position of the sun, don’t we? But time is surely much more than just division of a day. We have all come across various time related idioms and proverbs like ‘Time flies’, ‘Time heals’, ‘Time is money’, ‘Give him some time’, ‘Time and tide wit for none’ and the list goes on and on…

            In my understanding time is one of the strongest, most efficient equalisers. I feel time is a representative of the superpower – God. Time always was, is and will be. We all have time but it is limited. We have the same number of hours in a day, irrespective of gender, economic status, religion, caste or what have you. A day is only 24 hours long, a year is 365 days and ultimately life does come to an end which means ‘Time over – Game over’. We are born and we have time until we die.

            Some of us constantly threaten ourselves with death and therefore try and use all the time we have constantly working, amassing wealth and postponing things that we really should do to another day. We only do the urgent things like answering work calls, replying to work related messages, dong things that are economically and financially important or lucrative. We procrastinate the important things like spending time with family, resting, thinking, playing, being joyful. We call ourselves workaholics and feel great pride in the same. But this is where we must understand that it is necessary to take a break before we breakdown.

            Taking a break is also great way of utilising time. It is a probably a very efficient way to spend time. A good break only enhances your perspective, creativity and effectiveness. There’s nothing wrong in taking a break as long as one realises that a break is all about being active in some other, constructive, joyful manner.

            On the other hand, we have people who lead a life as if it is unlimited for them. They waste and while away time in useless, unproductive activities without realising what they actually lose. Time is probably the most perishable resource we have which once wasted and gone never returns. And yet we have people around us who show utter disrespect towards this representative of the superpower. Such people realise the significance of time they have lost in their time of struggle, misfortune or what we call ‘bad time’. This brings us to the point where we come across the categorisation of time as ‘Good time and Bad time’. We had somebody known as the ‘King of Good times’, remember?

            Can time be good or bad? Does time have the capacity to appreciate or punish individuals? The answer is quite simple – YES. The most powerful empires have succumbed to the wrath of time, haven’t they? Time is all pervasive and powerful. It is limited for one and all. Everyone experiences good time as well as bad. Therefore it would be fair to say that “Time is the ultimate equaliser”.

 


Wednesday, 16 April 2025

65 years Gold

They were all of sixteen and one plus twenty,
When they ringed each other with duties plenty.

By the age of seventeen and five more
They weren't singles any more.

From 1960, all the way to 2025
Years of togetherness are sixty five.

Just a year ahead, when tragedy knocked the door,
He was only 5 months old, how their hearts tore. 

Two years passed when came Panna the daughter,
Rushi came next, just a couple of years        later. 

Thus by 1965, the family was complete;
Set to sail the ship of life in Gujarat heat.

With resources few and means limited,
Life wasn't easy with duties unlimited. 

Scarcity was like air all around,
But together always, happiness they found. 

Let me introduce you to the couple,                babu mushai!
The lady is Damyanti and the man is              Gunwant Rai.

Even with less, they discovered more,
As prudent spending was at the core. 

Accept, adjust, adapt and let go
Love inspite of all that is what they show.

Parents, siblings, children, grand children and more,
They have provided themselves to each and every chore. 

Inspite of all these, they made some time,
To fight and play, to sing and rhyme. 

Now old and slow but absolutely wise,
Their energy although is a total disguise.

Now they just can't resist fighting each          other.
We laugh, knowing, they can't resist each     other. 

Their marriage is sixty five years Gold.
How marriages should be; youngsters behold.