Break Free
Expression of thoughts
Thursday, 23 July 2026
Finally, a Rainy day!
Tuesday, 17 June 2025
Time - The ultimate equaliser
One element, one unit that envelopes all humans
across the world is "TIME". We talk, act, behave and live under the
grand influence of time, don't we? In a very philosophical way, we may say time
is the only resource we all have and we all spend. So it makes
a lot of sense that we spend it wisely as time is limited, isn’t it?
Let us delve into the question ‘What
is time?’ It is probably what we keep a watch on in our clocks and gadgets, isn’t
it? Wake up at 6:00 am, get ready by 7:00, breakfast by 8:00, reach office by
9:00 and the day goes on according to the timetable. Days begin and end, dates
change, months and years follow and time continues to fly. Few days back we
were celebrating new years and here we are almost half a year ahead. No wonder
they say ‘Time Flies’. So is time limited to that time piece called
clock? There must be more so let’s explore.
What if one completely removes the
clock from the equation. Then we will be left with day and night or more precisely,
morning, afternoon, evening and night. This means we try to divide time of the
day according to the position of the sun, don’t we? But time is surely much
more than just division of a day. We have all come across various time related
idioms and proverbs like ‘Time flies’, ‘Time heals’, ‘Time is money’, ‘Give
him some time’, ‘Time and tide wit for none’ and the list goes on and on…
In my understanding time is one of
the strongest, most efficient equalisers. I feel time is a representative of
the superpower – God. Time always was, is and will be. We all have time
but it is limited. We have the same number of hours in a day, irrespective of
gender, economic status, religion, caste or what have you. A day is only 24
hours long, a year is 365 days and ultimately life does come to an end which
means ‘Time over – Game over’. We are born and we have time until we
die.
Some of us constantly threaten
ourselves with death and therefore try and use all the time we have constantly
working, amassing wealth and postponing things that we really should do to
another day. We only do the urgent things like answering work calls, replying to
work related messages, dong things that are economically and financially
important or lucrative. We procrastinate the important things like spending
time with family, resting, thinking, playing, being joyful. We call ourselves
workaholics and feel great pride in the same. But this is where we must
understand that it is necessary to take a break before we breakdown.
Taking a break is also great way of utilising
time. It is a probably a very efficient way to spend time. A good break only
enhances your perspective, creativity and effectiveness. There’s nothing wrong
in taking a break as long as one realises that a break is all about being
active in some other, constructive, joyful manner.
On the other hand, we have people
who lead a life as if it is unlimited for them. They waste and while away time
in useless, unproductive activities without realising what they actually lose. Time
is probably the most perishable resource we have which once wasted and gone
never returns. And yet we have people around us who show utter disrespect
towards this representative of the superpower. Such people realise the
significance of time they have lost in their time of struggle, misfortune or
what we call ‘bad time’. This brings us to the point where we come across the categorisation
of time as ‘Good time and Bad time’. We had somebody known as the ‘King of Good
times’, remember?
Can time be good or bad? Does time
have the capacity to appreciate or punish individuals? The answer is quite
simple – YES. The most powerful empires have succumbed to the wrath of time, haven’t
they? Time is all pervasive and powerful. It is limited for one and all. Everyone
experiences good time as well as bad. Therefore it would be fair to say that “Time
is the ultimate equaliser”.
Wednesday, 16 April 2025
65 years Gold
Thursday, 19 December 2024
Lonely?
Monday, 21 October 2024
Action and Consequences
Sujoy -
A young man, fresh out of college and in his first job, was super excited to conquer his desires and fulfill his material aspirations. Sujoy had lived a life of discipline and self-deprivation in order to study well. His childhood was full of unfulfilled material wishes; wishes rejected by parents claiming they knew what was best for him. They provided him with the best study material, more than adequate infrastructure to educate him well.
Now all the hard work had fructified and Sujoy had completed an MBA with Marketing from an above average college. He had joined an MNC with a package he was quite boastful of. Although his parents, as usual, felt that he could have done better. He had been just a three month old baby in the corporate world and had absolutely no idea of the nuances of this world. He was clueless about the show-off, the politics, the hypocrisy, the fake appreciations and the cut-throat competition. He was also unaware of another field of management - Finance.
An intern, Surbhit, entered office one day beaming with pride and happiness. He had purchased an I-phone, the price of which was in excess of eighty thousand rupees. The seniors were all gaga about the purchase, appreciating the technology, discussing the greatness of some of the companies in the field of innovation. In general, the intern was a show-stopper that day. Someone even remarked looking at Sujoy, that not everybody knew how to live life.
Within the next couple of days, Sujoy made an investment decision. At least he thought it was one. He purchased a phone the price of which was in excess of one lakh rupees. He bought it on a one year installment option. Moreover he was certainly proud of the fact that finance company gave him the required credit within no time. Everybody went gaga over his phone now. Today was his day to be the center of attraction. He made sure to meet the colleague who had remarked about how to live life. His father was not particularly happy and appreciative of this decision.
A couple of months passed and a colleague of his, Abhay, got a new bike; a stylish, expensive 250cc bike loaded with features, with an on-road price around 2.8 lakh rupees. Abhay could not stop talking about it, describing his love for his new machine. Sujoy could not resist anymore. He fell out of love with his bike. He felt angry with his father to have given him a basic 110cc bike. He felt he had to upgrade to thrive in the corporate world. There were colleagues talking about how Abhay's personality had suddenly become impressive and how he would be able to convince potential clients and girls just by getting off the bike in style.
Sujoy had to upgrade. He researched some bikes; he fell in love with a bike and it had some of the latest features, great power 400cc, very stylish. Sujoy knew his personality would benefit immensely. Needless to say, the price was in excess of the one Abhay had bought. The price was 4.2 lakh rupees on road. Could he afford it? Well, Sujoy's father didn't think so. Sujoy was confident. He went to the showroom and was impressed with the finance company's quick response and ability to offer a loan to him. He thought he was getting so much credit owing to his respectable salary, education and his ever developing personality. The finance people were so polite and co-operative; for every document they asked for and that Sujoy didn't have, they had a solution. They ensured that the young lad could buy his dream bike within a week. Sujoy blessed these angels. He surprised his parents with the new bike. At least he thought so, for them it was no less than a shock.
Sujoy's father expressed his displeasure at the dinner table. Sujoy was in no mood of receiving a lecture; he made it clear that he could take his financial decisions. The topic ended quite abruptly, so did dinner. A lot was unsaid and unheard.
Next day, was Sujoy's day; showing off his new found love. He had even purchased new pair of clothes to accompany the new bike. A grand brand must accompany another, he thought. As expected, all colleagues were full of awe for the new machine. Some were even envious and Sujoy could feel the pleasure of making them jealous. He loved the praise that he had upgraded his personality. He was loving his life. A new latest hi-end phone, a grand new bike, a job with a respectable salary, some installments though.
The pleasure was quite short-lived for Sujoy. One of his colleagues got a hi-end laptop with latest features. It was his claim to fame that day. He said this was a real investment as the laptop helped him in presentations, it helped him in designing and editing marketing ideas. Another colleague remarked that this was truly an investment as he would open it in front of clients and present to them the idea as well as the laptop. This was in true sense a personality booster and an asset. Things like phones and vehicles were just depreciating assets. Sujoy felt this was said on purpose. His heart burnt. He though to himself that he was going to upgrade his laptop anyway. So may be now was the most appropriate time to do so.
The finance team at the laptop store seemed inefficient to Sujoy. They were asking too many questions, they wanted too many documents. It was as if they were unwilling to give him a laptop. He had to borrow some money from a friend at work to pay the down payment as they made him pay nearly half of the price. The price was in excess 1.2 lakhs. Still they did offer him a credit of around 60% of the price. 'Finance people are always so co-operative and accomodative', he thought to himself.
So now, he was the coolest guy at office. He had bought a great phone, trendy bike and the latest laptop in a span of six months. 'Could life have been any better?' Parents were as usual unhappy. He had accepted that parents would never be happy with his success. That is what he thought of them. Colleagues and interns were all over him. He enjoyed being the coolest techno-savvy guy. He had the latest games on his phone and laptop. His bike was the fastest and most stylish. He had even given a grand treat to his colleagues at a classic restaurant. A couple of months had passed.
Sujoy realised that almost 90% of his saving was wiped off in down payments. He didn't mind that, what he was a little concerned about was that nearly 80% of his salary was spent in installments. He just didn't have any money left in hand by the tenth day of the month. Fuel seemed too expensive these days; although the price had risen only by 10% since his last bike. He had to avoid going out with friends for dinners, movies or just some fun long rides.
He had the gadgets but he was not very excited about them now. The finances were depleting fast. Sujoy's father could sense that things weren't very smooth. With years of experience and wisdom, he had expected this to happen. Sujoy on the other hand was stressed out managing the installments and the private loan from a friend/colleague. The word had spread that the so called friend had lent him a loan. All the glitter and glamour had burnt down by now. The stress took its toll and showed itself on work performance. The boss ensured a detailed criticism in front of the team. After all, his junior had boasted too much over the past quarter with gadgets but the performance was no where near. Sujoy was insulted. He was humiliated so much so, that he considered quitting the job.
Sujoy could not quit. He needed a job. His personal finance was such that he could not risk quitting and then searching for another job. He had to swallow the bitter pill. Stress was high and like never before. Sujoy's father asked if things were fine. Dinner table talks were generally limited as Sujoy was too submerged in his gadgets and thoughts, to talk. Sujoy didn't wish to share but he couldn't resist looking away. He didn't want his mother or father to find out with his facial expression. They already had. Post dinner, Sujoy's father went to his room and sat beside him. He asked Sujoy to share whatever it was. He said it in a tone Sujoy just couldn't resist. He opened up. He told him how he was insulted by his boss, how he wished to quit, how his financial situation was absolutely pathetic, how he was forced to take the insult.
Sujoy's father told him that actions have consequences. He told him about the corporate culture, why his boss might have blasted so much, how the others had, in a way, coaxed him into buying unnecessary things, how the finance people work. Sujoy realised that this lesson he had learnt the hard way.
Sujoy's father guided him with a financial plan. He insisted that Sujoy must work more efficienty in the same company, cut down on unnecessary expenses on snacks, beverages, accessories. Sujoy agreed and went back to some financial discipline. For regular days, the old bike was out and running again. Petrol didn't seem too expensive on that. He knew he was only facing consequences to the thoughtless financial decisions he had taken. Within a year and half, he had wiped off two loans. He had saved a little better. He hadn't fallen for any comparisons with anyone. He didn't become miserly, however he ceased to be a spend thrift as well. He was a prudent spender now.
Sujoy had never thought of the financial consequences earlier although now he first thinks of them then the action. He learnt his financial lesson at a young age.